Congratulations on your decision to change
Wow, it's been so long I don't remember all the details of our change. We had 2 children at the time aged 3 & 5 and they changed too because I'm the cook & if people don't eat what I cook they can go hungry
We actually cut out dairy first. We had bought a new property - 38 acres in the Bega Valley Australia (dairy country). I started hearing the most pitiful bellowing from the cows on the next property. For days they would walk the fences crying out. I had no idea what it was all about so I asked my neighbour. He said they were 'just' crying for their babies & were walking the fences searching for them (they had been taken away 24 hrs after birth so we could have their milk). I was horrorfied. I said to my husband we just cannot be part of this suffering, I can't be responsible for the torture of these poor mothers (not to mention what happens to their kids) & we just went cold turkey off dairy. The kids REALLY missed it but they got over it.
Next I read "A Diet For A New America" & we went cold turkey vegan as soon as I finished the book.
To make it easier I bought a few Vegan cookbooks & made lists of breakfasts, lunches & dinners that were vegan (so I didn't have to think too hard each day). I think the most painless way to go vegan is to think of all the things you normally eat & think of how you can 'veganise' them, then try new recipes & get a stack you like & add them to the mix.
We really don't like pretend 'meats' - they always taste like crap to us & they are hardly ever very healthy. My oldest daughter, especially, likes to eat dishes from other countries that are vegan in their natural state (& their are soooo many).
Here's a list of our staples: (soy milk is our 'milk' of choice)
Breakfasts:
Oatmeal with nuts, seeds & soy milk; Toast with baked beans or creamed corn or sauteed mushrooms; pancakes; toast with avocado & tomato or tahini & tomato or PB&J
Lunches
Tortillas with refried beans, tofutti cream cheese, salad & salsa; salad & hommos rolls & sandwiches; lentil patties on a bun with vegan mayo & sweet chilli sauce; nori rolls with carrot, cucumber, avocado & sunflower seeds; noodle or pasta salads with beans or nuts
Dinners:
Stir-fries with veggies, tofu or cashews & brown rice (Thai, Malay or Chinese sauces); Mexican - beans substituted for any meat; lentil bolognese; lots of pasta with veggie sauces; Felafal with lebanese dips & veggie dishes or salads; soups with damper; casseroles with lots of veggies & beans served with mashed potato; Lentil or bean patties with veggies & gravy. The list is ENDLESS!
For snacks I make vegan cookies, cakes, muffins (I always make a double batch & freeze half that way I've always got something to throw in a lunchbox if I'm pushed for time), we have fruit plates, veggies & dip, nuts, popcorn, smoothies
It really is easier than people think.