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Here is what I know so far-
Ben is 14 months and ahead in cognitive development but behind in a few other areas- mainly gross motor and other things related to speech/hearing. Overall, not a big deal, unless of course we can't get his hearing problem under control
He had a hearing test last week and didn't do so well. See my thread here-http://www.mothering.com/discussions/showthread.php?t=1071714
So now I just need to wait til Monday when the EI people call me back to set up another meeting. The first meeting will be goal planning and we'll talk about what to do next.
I'm assuming therapy will start the following week.
Now, I need some help sorting this hearing stuff out in my head and deciding what to do. I wish I understood how the hearing test works and what my options are but I find myself at the mercy of what the doctors are telling me and for me that is hard.
Last week he "failed" the hearing test because of fluid behind his right ear. He's never had an ear infection, so I assumed this is not a chronic problem.
However, now I just don't know what to do. Here are the options I have in my head.
1- redo the test to see if the fluid is gone, without doing anything to make the fluid go away. This would tell me whether the fluid is a persistent problem or a one time thing.
2. Give him decongestant and clear the fluid to see if he can pass the test, but then I wouldn't know if it's going to come back and then impair his hearing as soon as the decongestant wears off.
If I give him medicine (allergy meds, decongestant, etc) and he passes the hearing test, then what? Keep him on meds permanently? I don't want to do that either.
Also, what kind of a test should I ask for? What do I need to know before going in? The first time, I was so sure he'd pass the test that I didn't bother reading anything and honestly I just don't understand what I'm reading now anyway.
I hate being so uneducated about this. I mean, if this were an OB I'd know exactly how to talk to him, what the tests mean, and I know I could get awesome advice from my midwife if a procedure or intervention was recommended. With this, I just don't know which way is up, kwim? I need midwife ENT...why don't we have midwives for every area of our bodies? LOL!
Ben is 14 months and ahead in cognitive development but behind in a few other areas- mainly gross motor and other things related to speech/hearing. Overall, not a big deal, unless of course we can't get his hearing problem under control
He had a hearing test last week and didn't do so well. See my thread here-http://www.mothering.com/discussions/showthread.php?t=1071714
So now I just need to wait til Monday when the EI people call me back to set up another meeting. The first meeting will be goal planning and we'll talk about what to do next.
I'm assuming therapy will start the following week.
Now, I need some help sorting this hearing stuff out in my head and deciding what to do. I wish I understood how the hearing test works and what my options are but I find myself at the mercy of what the doctors are telling me and for me that is hard.
Last week he "failed" the hearing test because of fluid behind his right ear. He's never had an ear infection, so I assumed this is not a chronic problem.
However, now I just don't know what to do. Here are the options I have in my head.
1- redo the test to see if the fluid is gone, without doing anything to make the fluid go away. This would tell me whether the fluid is a persistent problem or a one time thing.
2. Give him decongestant and clear the fluid to see if he can pass the test, but then I wouldn't know if it's going to come back and then impair his hearing as soon as the decongestant wears off.
If I give him medicine (allergy meds, decongestant, etc) and he passes the hearing test, then what? Keep him on meds permanently? I don't want to do that either.
Also, what kind of a test should I ask for? What do I need to know before going in? The first time, I was so sure he'd pass the test that I didn't bother reading anything and honestly I just don't understand what I'm reading now anyway.
I hate being so uneducated about this. I mean, if this were an OB I'd know exactly how to talk to him, what the tests mean, and I know I could get awesome advice from my midwife if a procedure or intervention was recommended. With this, I just don't know which way is up, kwim? I need midwife ENT...why don't we have midwives for every area of our bodies? LOL!