All-natural aloe vera gel (not the green fake kind for suntanning, but the one in the health-food stores).
For a nice hair wax/pomade, use solidified cocoa butter - Palmer's Cocoa Butter in the jar is the most readily available, I would think.
It's packed full of vitamin E too. Use it on your hair, heels, elbows, anywhere. I love it.
You take take a wee bit and smooth it in your hands and run it over your hair to smooth flyaways (don't use too much) or get a little 'residue' of it on your fingers and pinch the ends of your hair for a chunky peice-y look or smaller cool pixie pieces, including flips.