so mean and petty, it crushed you? I mean, literally made your breath catch in your throat and made your eyes water? Was it easy to get over it? Did he apologize for being insensitive? Dh said something so MEAN this morning (I can't repeat it here<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="greensad"> ) that I felt sad, angry, and hurt all at once. It occured to me to say something back, but no words would come, and I so don't wanna play that game anymore.