I'm not doing so well. I can't keep it all together anymore. Not that I ever felt I could in the first place..
I just (on the 31st) moved from a toxic neighbour situation into a small place with a backyard. Landlord was to finish putting up fence yesterday so I could let my toddler run around. Of course he didn't show up.
My ex helped me move, but wouldn't talk to me the whole time as he hates moving and it is all my fault of course. It was a stressful move that I did on 2.5 hours of sleep as my 4 week old baby has the grouchies brought on by my oversupply of overactive letdown.
My toddler has been hitting for the last 3 months. He is hitting everything and everyone, he is very destructive and it is pissing me off. I dont know what to do. Redirection and talking doesnt work. He is not really verbal yet at 21 months so its hard to communicate with him. he does NOT listen to me.
I have severe PPD and Im not on anything. I am battling leaving my kids and running away every day. It doesnt help that I didnt want a second child and was very upset when I found out I was pregnant. I love my little son, but its hard..
My ex isnt much help. He is busy working, and while he comes over every night (so I can cook for him and to drop off his laundry.. we often run errands ands tuff then too) he isnt much help with the kids. He does however take my toddler every weekend so I can get a break. We fight often and had a great one yesterday in which I told him not to come over for a while.
My place is a mess, I can't ever get ahead on the chores and stuff and I hate having to make food for myself and my toddler. My toddler wrecks everything and I cant ge thim to stop! I cant get him to stop doing anything...
I dont know what to do...
I just (on the 31st) moved from a toxic neighbour situation into a small place with a backyard. Landlord was to finish putting up fence yesterday so I could let my toddler run around. Of course he didn't show up.
My ex helped me move, but wouldn't talk to me the whole time as he hates moving and it is all my fault of course. It was a stressful move that I did on 2.5 hours of sleep as my 4 week old baby has the grouchies brought on by my oversupply of overactive letdown.
My toddler has been hitting for the last 3 months. He is hitting everything and everyone, he is very destructive and it is pissing me off. I dont know what to do. Redirection and talking doesnt work. He is not really verbal yet at 21 months so its hard to communicate with him. he does NOT listen to me.
I have severe PPD and Im not on anything. I am battling leaving my kids and running away every day. It doesnt help that I didnt want a second child and was very upset when I found out I was pregnant. I love my little son, but its hard..
My ex isnt much help. He is busy working, and while he comes over every night (so I can cook for him and to drop off his laundry.. we often run errands ands tuff then too) he isnt much help with the kids. He does however take my toddler every weekend so I can get a break. We fight often and had a great one yesterday in which I told him not to come over for a while.
My place is a mess, I can't ever get ahead on the chores and stuff and I hate having to make food for myself and my toddler. My toddler wrecks everything and I cant ge thim to stop! I cant get him to stop doing anything...
I dont know what to do...