Every morning, ds sits on my lap on the toilet and poops. If there is a distraction, or a routine change, he often won't go. This makes him cranky and off for the rest of the day. After three months of this, however, I am getting sick of having to sit on the toilet with him. He won't sit on his BBLP, so I bought a BB toilet trainer. He likes it, but he goes rigid and won't sit on it if he has to poop. Even if he is pooping, and I try to shift him, it doesn't work. Today we ended up with poop all over both of us and a bit of the house and bathroom because I was trying to force it. I am going nuts. I know I shouldn't force it - he will make the shift to pottying alone when he is ready, but I am having a hard time right now. I feel like we are at a plateau, or even backsliding a little.