Okay Olivia is 10 months old now and still will not eat solids. Everyone is one my case about it. But I can't force feed her. She will not open her mouth for it at all. She gags if anything beyond puree goes in her mouth and she vomits. The puree she will swallow but only if I trick her into opening her mouth. She never, and I mean never willingly opens her mouth for it. It just seems ridiculous to spend 20 minutes trying to trick her into eating. I don't want her food associations to be bad (I had an eating disorder when I was younger). I really feel I should just lay off and leave her alone until she's ready BUT I am also scared that maybe something is wrong with her. I don't really want to get doctors involved unless necessary because we don't vax or do well baby visits. She has never been to the doctor. She is still growing fine and healthy and wonderful, nurses 10-20 times a day (closer to 20 lately!). What should I do?