We have a 3 year old son who was circumsized due to my ignorance and youth. I am pregnant with our 3rd, and I have a feeling it is a boy. Nothing I have said to DH has worked to convince him not to circ the new baby. He keeps saying things like "we're fine" and "plenty of people get it done, he won't remember it" and keeps begging me to "leave this decision up to him." I'm not very far along, so I still have some time to convince him. I know that when I deliver the baby, if there is disagreement between us, the staff will go by what I say and not my dh, but I really don't want it to come to that. I feel like that would be really telling him that I am the only parent and only my opinions matter, etc. So if I can, I would really like to convince him. I have sent him pictures, articles, etc etc etc. And he won't budge on it. Even his best friend, who recently had a son and circed him, has come around to my way of seeing things and won't circ another child. I just don't know if this is a pride thing with him or what. Its just really upsetting to me and under no circumstances do I want my baby touched!! Any help you can give me for my difficult DH would be helpful, thanks alot.