I am sure for your friend these are the hard times. The dilemma of not being able to conceive is indeed the most difficult one to get out of. She should definitely visit a specialist and ask them for the best advice. However, when I was diagnosed as infertile I basically was told I had two options IVF and surrogacy. However, due to complications in my body, I was told that IVF would probably disappoint me. Therefore, surrogacy was recommended to me. So the doctors did tell me the possibilities and the pro and cons. The last decision was to be mine and I went with what the doctors said would work out. So after which I researched on the procedure and whether it would work for me or not. I honestly learned a lot by watching various videos on surrogacy as well. Now, it really depends on your friend's condition if she is producing fertile eggs and has a proper functioning uterus then IVF would work. However, if not then going for surrogacy should be her next option. Be there for her in hard times because things can get depressing as one feels they cant have their own family. However, positivity and having your own loved ones around does help. Sending baby dust her and all my warm wishes are with her.