i'm hoping someone can help me with this- i'll try and keep the story short. i have a bit of a phobia about the dentist, and well, it's been a loooong time since i've seen one. now i think i have an abcess and i know that something that really needs to be taken care of right away. does anyone have any suggestions for a kind and gentle dentist who won't be judgemental about the fact that i haven't gone in so long?? thanks!