I don't know what to do. My husband has always been pro-circ ,but since we had a girl first the issue never arose. so this time around we got to talking and he is making me feel guilty for wanting to leave our son intact. He says that i always make all the choices for dd such as bf, cd, no vax, co-sleeping, but I said that's just how i am comfortable parenting and i know it's the best thing for her. so now i feel like i have to give in to this one thing in order to be able to evenly make choices about ds. i have told him all the info about circ and he just says that he wants his son to look like him and be normal!! please give me some advice on how i can gently persuade him.