We are invited to a Christmas open house at our neighbours. Since we are new to the neighbourhood we really don't know them all that well. I know their names and that they have a son in his young-20s. What do you take as a hostess gift? I'm really very bad at knowing the proper etiquette for this stuff (DH and I don't go out much). I make a lot of things from scratch - would something homemade be appropriate? Food (not sure of allergies though)? Homemade soap? Some of my jams? Or do I just bring flowers? Ahh... this is stressing me out!