i really don't know what to do. ds went for his 4 month check up today and the ped asked me if he was taking vitamins and i told her i took him off of them because he was having issues digesting them and she goes off into this rant about how he needs them because he can only get D from the sun blah blah blah. so i told her i was taking prenatals and she said he still needed it. whatever! ds goes outside everyday. so i let that go but the ultimate "disappointer" was when she told me he is ready for rice. i totally couldn't believe what she was saying because she is an LC and, i thought, a strong supporter of natural parenting. i told her i wasn't interested in that and she said that ds is gaining weight too slowly (9.15 oz) and he needs to bulk up. she devised a chart that monitored his weight and there were several dips so now i'm freaking out. i don't want to give him that processed crap nor do i want to give him formula (God forbid solids at this age). i don't know what to do! dh is all yucky and wants ds on cereal now because of what ds' ped said. i don't have any support on this matter. i'm so frustrated and i don't know what to do. please help me mamas!