I've been carrying my ds around who is 16 mo. and about 25 lbs. I mean not a lot but have been carrying him some what throughout my entire pregnancy (I'm 15 weeks) and someone alarmed me that seperation of the placenta could happen if I continue to hold him. I'm so scared right now. Is anyone else in my boat with a toddler and multiples?? And if so, have you been holding your dc a lot? thanks. ?