Help with bleeding, receding, sensitive gums

I also wanted to add, that I have a pierced tongue. Do you think that might be part of the cause?
I am thinking of taking it out.
I'm also wondering what a pierced tongue means accupuncture wise. iykwim

I don't know about bf'ing but my dentist did tell me that a big part of the reason my teeth got so " brittle" {read weak and easily chipped/broken} is because I wasn't getting enough calcium while pg and my body pulled what it needed from 'wherever it could be found' and that it happens to alot of women, especially those with multiple pgs or closely spaced kids... even prenates and calcuim fortified foods like I tend to binge on aren't enough sometimes... He also said it was a sign I might want to talk to my MD about getting on boniva or something of that ilk to get a head start on preventatives against bone loss...

Thank you for the reply! I just found something on chia seeds and that they are very high in calcium. I will try that and see if that hopefully effects my gums as well.
I don't know about MD's anymore. It seems like they only make things worse so many times. We just got new insurance though, maybe our new physician actually cares.