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My cousin is intact and got married last year. They were TTC immediately, and I mentioned that I assumed they weren't circing since my cousin isn't. She said..

"Oh hell YES we're circing, it's *gross* if it's not circed."

I said, isn't my cousin intact? She said yes and she *hates it*.

I didn't even know how to respond to that.
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oh wow...she's the first woman I've ever heard of who preferred circ'd to intact. Hmmm...was she smoking something when she said it?

I don't know - that seems puzzling.
bummer for your cousin.......hopefully you can pass some info along to her before they ever have a son.
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Wow, Does your cousin know how his wife feels about his penis? I would start feeding them info on the benifits of being intact. I might send it to him in a toung in cheek way, sort of; "This is why your dick is superior to a cut dick bla bla bla don't you waht any son of yours to have that to."
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Originally Posted by dynamicdoula
My cousin is intact and got married last year. They were TTC immediately, and I mentioned that I assumed they weren't circing since my cousin isn't. She said..

"Oh hell YES we're circing, it's *gross* if it's not circed."

I said, isn't my cousin intact? She said yes and she *hates it*.

I didn't even know how to respond to that.

Please allow me a moment....

WHY THE F*** IS SHE MARRIED TO HIM THEN?!?!?!?!?!?

[/moment over]

Sorry, but I really don't understand. If it's that "gross," then why did she marry him. I know sex isn't the end all be all of a marriage, but I would worry about this point. It will be a big obstacle for them some time.
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Nice to know she hates her husband's penis. Its not the biggest deciding factor in who to marry, but sheesh- she aught to know how lucky she is, at the very LEAST. That said, I don't know that knowing what I know now and having an intact partner, I could stay with someone who is not intact. Not easy to say that, though, but ... Anyway, how can she have disdain for her husband openly like that? What kind of sexlife is it to say "Eww gross!"?!?!?!
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Originally Posted by heket
Please allow me a moment....

WHY THE F*** IS SHE MARRIED TO HIM THEN?!?!?!?!?!?

[/moment over]

Sorry, but I really don't understand. If it's that "gross," then why did she marry him. I know sex isn't the end all be all of a marriage, but I would worry about this point. It will be a big obstacle for them some time.
I agree! He needs to be told this if he doesn't know already.
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Oh man, that is a tough one.


I would bring it up to your cousin directly, even though I'm sure it won't be easy.

I wonder if the roles were reversed and a guy was saying he thought his partner's natural genitals or breasts were disgusting, what her thoughts would be. If my DH were to say that he wanted surgery on our newborn DD-to-be because he thought that my genitals were disgusting or my breasts were too small that would be one of the last things he ever said!
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Yeah her husband she be told that she has a "predjudice of intact penis"

I bet you that she proably psychologically mental think of that eww it smells, eww it has some stuff on there.

Maybe you should tell her to spread her folds look at her white smegma and ask her hubby to smell it .

I don't know how some women find intact men gross when there is alot more "natural' stuff coming out of us "women"
Are you sure she wasn't joking? You know how some people have a crazy sense of humor...the kind of people who will pretend to fall down in a cross walk and then laugh when you try to help them? Any chance she is just a little twisted?

If no...I would casually say to your cousin something like "so whats your wife's issue with foreskin?"

I agree he needs to know about her "issues" but more for the sake of any furture sons than his own good. He is an adult making (hopefully) informed choices. A little baby wouldn't stand a chance from the sounds of things.

Casey
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Maybe you should tell her to spread her folds look at her white smegma and ask her hubby to smell it .

I don't know how some women find intact men gross when there is alot more "natural' stuff coming out of us "women"

OMG! I love it! How totally true, though!!!
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Maybe you should tell her to spread her folds look at her white smegma and ask her hubby to smell it .

I don't know how some women find intact men gross when there is alot more "natural' stuff coming out of us "women"

OMG!!
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I know! Genitals r genitals. We don't go chopping on our little girls for cosmetic reasons at birth, so why do this to the little boys?
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My mil is like this. She insisted fil get circed after they got married. Still is sure my ds will have problems with realations because he is intact.
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Originally Posted by MommytoB
Maybe you should tell her to spread her folds look at her white smegma and ask her hubby to smell it .

I don't know how some women find intact men gross when there is alot more "natural' stuff coming out of us "women"

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That could be why they call it "bumping uglies" when the private parts meet up. It may not be pretty but it sure is fun


I must say, some of the women on this list should be stand up comics
Baybee
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You could ask her why she wants her son to be cut so as to be sexually attractive to her. That's sort of creepy, especially as she knows that an intact penis has no medical problems.
I'd send her some really bad botched circ pictures and say 'So... would you rather your husband and sons to look like *this*?' Especially point out some ones that, if it were her husband, she wouldn't have any sons because they're botched so badly they can never have sex.
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Originally Posted by baybee
That could be why they call it "bumping uglies" when the private parts meet up. It may not be pretty but it sure is fun


I must say, some of the women on this list should be stand up comics
Baybee

Maybe... Personally, I find my boyfriend's (and mine actually) equipment very attractive.
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