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Well, I have my place back to myself!<br>
I just dropped off the ex at the train station. He was going to walk, but I don't think he realized how far it was and I didn't want him to miss it (what if he came back, lol?)<br><br>
I realized that I just have so much unresolved anger at him that I've ignored for the sake of keeping the peace, and I just had to let it out! I'm totally embarrassed how bad I lost it with him, so after I came back on Tuesday I just said let's start over (I posted about this, in case you are confused). He started trying to talk about it, and I was like, we're not even going to go there- we are moving on.<br><br>
And Tuesday night and Wednesday went really well, so I think it was neccessary that I blow up so that I could even pretend to peacefully co-exist.<br><br>
Anyway, for now I am back to bed! I even sang a little song when we got back from dropping him off, DD thought it was hysterical!<br><br>
It went a little something like this *clearing throat*<br>
"He's gone, he's gone, he's really really GONE!<br>
Now mommy can run around naked and do what I want!<br>
I can let my boobs hang out and pee with the door OPEN (capitals indicate a high pitched emphasis, btw )<br>
I can have my space all to myself, and no one will eat all my good FOOD.<br>
Hooray for 5 am trains!!!!"<br><br>
Repeat as neccessary. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/lol.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="lol">
 

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<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/lol.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="lol"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/thumb.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="thumbs up">
 

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I can't imagine having my ex stay with me for a week. We get along well and can sit down and be quite friendly to one another for an afternoon...but even that sometimes, is more than enough!
 

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When I was divorcing my XH1, he had called and left a message with my roommate that he was unable to make the visit. I ran through the house jumping and screaming with joy " he's not coming, he's not coming!!!" Of course my son who was a toddler at the time though it was hysterical. I am nowhere near talented enough to make up a song on the spot, but I can relate to the joy you feel. Glad you got your house back!!!
 

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<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/lol.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="lol"><br><br>
My ex is leaving on Monday, mind if I borrow your song???<br><br>
Congrats on handling yourself so well during such a rough visit!
 

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That is a lovely song if I must say so myself. I'd be on the news if my ex had to stay. That's all I'm saying short of a UA violation. The rest is <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/censored.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="censored">.
 
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