Oh -My! Last night was fun -We had to go to Menards to get some stuff for the new house - Emma (15M)was well rested/fed/in a good mood - until we got there - she screamed as soon as we put her in the cart - she wouldn't go in the carrier - woldn't let us carry her - she wanted to RUN through the store - I tried everything I could come up with - my dh was getting pissed to the point he said just spank her - um no- so he was pisse she was pissed - it was fun!I told him its normal - blah blah blah - she's asserting her independence, but it really isn't the safest store to let her wander in. By the end of the trip I wanted a harness for her! & I swore I'd never leash my kid but in that exact moment I understood why people use them! she wanted down but refused my hand & honestly - she is SUPER fast!I look at the shelf or light fixture for .2 seconds - she is gone. short of leaving her home what can I do!!!!!!! I don't want one of "those" kids that screams through the entire blessed store! please help me figure something out before I snap & buy her a harness !