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<p>We have a medical bill, and a couple of months ago I called to negotiate a bit of a payment plan, no interest. That went fine. I gave the woman our credit card info over the phone for them to charge ASAP for the first payment. She told me the payments would be charged the 20th of the month after the initial payment. Sounds good.</p>
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<p>I waited for the first payment to be charged. Waited a week. It didn't show up. I called them back and the person I talked to said it would be charged within 3 days "please call back Friday if you want to check, it will be charged by then." I waited until Friday and it didn't show up on my account. I called back and this person said they couldn't promise when it would be charged.</p>
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<p>Now, maybe I'm being stupid, but I really wanted to make sure it was charged promptly. I am trying to plan my money here. There's nothing I hate worse than thinking I have money that I don't really have. If it were a check, I'd have it in the register but it's not. I realize the obvious answer is "make a note of it" but see, that's the point, everyone else takes their money on time, why can't they? I am spending way too much time chasing after them and basically begging them to take my money.</p>
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<p>I'm not even done yet. In October, I noticed they didn't charge me on the 20th. I waited a few days. I called. They said the charge didn't go through. Huh? It went through last month just fine, and believe me, the card is current and I never carry a balance. There was $14,500 worth of credit line to cover a $150 payment. The card had not expired. But, whatever, I asked her to hold on while I put my hand on another card, but then she said "well, why don't we try to charge it again?" OK. But when I realized she didn't mean "right now, while I have you on the phone and can give you the result" I wanted to try another card, but she said let's just try this one, call back in 3 days. Sigh.</p>
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<p>3 days later the charge went through. So that was month 2 of payments were they couldn't get it together.</p>
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<p>Now it's November. By this time, the 20th of the month is like a major day in my head - no chance of forgetting this stupid bill anymore. Did they charge the 20th? No they did not. I waited a few days. Then my husband got the mail and there was a letter, dated October 14th (so, well over a month ago) saying they tried to charge the card and failed, please call them. Huh? Unfortunately I forgot to call (that was Wednesday) and then it was the holidays. So now there's 1 day left in November and I am probably going to have to roll this payment into December and pay twice in the month.</p>
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<p>I have called the number 4 times today thus far and I keep going to voice mail. I haven't left a message yet - same thing, I just don't want to be waiting for THEM and risk forgetting. You know? Like, if I call and leave a message for them, the next action is theirs. So it's easy for me to take it off my mind because I am not doing anything, just waiting. So I keep hanging up, waiting 20 or 30 minutes, and calling again.</p>
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<p>So, what would you do? Reward them by paying in full and never dealing with them again? I'd have to dip into my underfunded emergency fund to do that, plus of course not save a dime including for things that must be saved for (like our next heating fuel fillup or our next insurance payment). I'd rather pay $150 a month as agreed. On time.</p>
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<p>Or perhaps when I finally get them on the phone, I should deauthorize them to charge my card, and say I'll send a check instead? And maybe they'll process my checks a month or two sooner than they intend to process my credit card payment?</p>
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<p>Or just relax about it and figure if they can't find their butt cheeks with both hands, then they'll just charge whenever they figure out what button to push. Of course they'll probably send me letters dated a month and a week ago so I can't figure out whether they just never got around to sending a letter than has long since been dealt with or if there is actually a new problem.</p>
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<p>Sorry for the long vent.</p>
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<p>I waited for the first payment to be charged. Waited a week. It didn't show up. I called them back and the person I talked to said it would be charged within 3 days "please call back Friday if you want to check, it will be charged by then." I waited until Friday and it didn't show up on my account. I called back and this person said they couldn't promise when it would be charged.</p>
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<p>Now, maybe I'm being stupid, but I really wanted to make sure it was charged promptly. I am trying to plan my money here. There's nothing I hate worse than thinking I have money that I don't really have. If it were a check, I'd have it in the register but it's not. I realize the obvious answer is "make a note of it" but see, that's the point, everyone else takes their money on time, why can't they? I am spending way too much time chasing after them and basically begging them to take my money.</p>
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<p>I'm not even done yet. In October, I noticed they didn't charge me on the 20th. I waited a few days. I called. They said the charge didn't go through. Huh? It went through last month just fine, and believe me, the card is current and I never carry a balance. There was $14,500 worth of credit line to cover a $150 payment. The card had not expired. But, whatever, I asked her to hold on while I put my hand on another card, but then she said "well, why don't we try to charge it again?" OK. But when I realized she didn't mean "right now, while I have you on the phone and can give you the result" I wanted to try another card, but she said let's just try this one, call back in 3 days. Sigh.</p>
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<p>3 days later the charge went through. So that was month 2 of payments were they couldn't get it together.</p>
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<p>Now it's November. By this time, the 20th of the month is like a major day in my head - no chance of forgetting this stupid bill anymore. Did they charge the 20th? No they did not. I waited a few days. Then my husband got the mail and there was a letter, dated October 14th (so, well over a month ago) saying they tried to charge the card and failed, please call them. Huh? Unfortunately I forgot to call (that was Wednesday) and then it was the holidays. So now there's 1 day left in November and I am probably going to have to roll this payment into December and pay twice in the month.</p>
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<p>I have called the number 4 times today thus far and I keep going to voice mail. I haven't left a message yet - same thing, I just don't want to be waiting for THEM and risk forgetting. You know? Like, if I call and leave a message for them, the next action is theirs. So it's easy for me to take it off my mind because I am not doing anything, just waiting. So I keep hanging up, waiting 20 or 30 minutes, and calling again.</p>
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<p>So, what would you do? Reward them by paying in full and never dealing with them again? I'd have to dip into my underfunded emergency fund to do that, plus of course not save a dime including for things that must be saved for (like our next heating fuel fillup or our next insurance payment). I'd rather pay $150 a month as agreed. On time.</p>
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<p>Or perhaps when I finally get them on the phone, I should deauthorize them to charge my card, and say I'll send a check instead? And maybe they'll process my checks a month or two sooner than they intend to process my credit card payment?</p>
<p> </p>
<p>Or just relax about it and figure if they can't find their butt cheeks with both hands, then they'll just charge whenever they figure out what button to push. Of course they'll probably send me letters dated a month and a week ago so I can't figure out whether they just never got around to sending a letter than has long since been dealt with or if there is actually a new problem.</p>
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<p>Sorry for the long vent.</p>