both girls are about at my waistline, maybe just below, but the part that comes up isn't tight enough to make me feel secure letting them go- I worry about them leaning back and falling out....<br><br>
it was a used sling. could it be stretched out or just too big?
Try a shoulder flip. Take the top layer of fabric near your neck and fold it down towards your shoulder. This will tighten the outer rail a little and bring your girls in closer to you. If this doesn't tighten it enough, your sling may be slightly too big for you. Then, I would e-mail Kristen of Hotslings and ask her advice about either shrinking it in the dryer or having it altered.<br><br>