Surgery went great, DD is pretty happy, nursing better (I hadn't even had problems, but it's definitely better!!!!!) and they never again mentioned vax.
Every single person in Day Surgery was pleasant, at least, but mostly were exceptionally kid-friendly, great people.
Dr. James Albright (ENT) did the clip and he was good with questions, great with the kids and I have no complaints at all.
I will mention that as an ENT, he was asking about DD's hearing screen. I said, "I don't know if she had one." and he said about it being state mandated and asked if she was a home or hospital birth. We told him, "home" and he said the midwife might have a had "a small box about 'this' big," and the conversation just kinda tapered, since DD's hearing hasn't been a question. He did point out that people usually choose to do the PKU test, yet hearing problems are 4x more common.
Anyway, he's got great kid sense, I'd say and was a very nice guy.