I am having a very hard time not telling my kids that I'm pregnant. I am only 4 weeks so I know its very early and I shouldn't tell them. If I miscarried it would be so hard to have to tell them the baby died. But at the same time I can't live in fear all the time because then I shouldn't tell them at all - what if I have a late miscarriage, what if I have a stillbirth, what if the baby is born disabled, what if the baby has a life-threatening disease? There are so many things that COULD happen but probably won't and I just don't know what to do. They have been asking me for a baby for months now and I would love to tell them. My daughter keeps asking me if I have a baby in my tummy yet and I keep saying no. I also wasn't going to tell my IL's but we are going down when I am 5 weeks and I feel so sick that I don't know how I am going to keep it from them. Plus if I did miscarry how would I explain to them why I was crying all the time? What do you think?