We are going to spend next weekend at dh's sister's house (her, her dh, and dh's 19 yr old brother), the same one that is 7 weeks pregnant and wants to circ if she has a boy. Dh is willing to talk about it (see my other post about his college roommate!) but he doesn't know how to bring it up. He doesn't really want to be the first to talk about penises (his words). And he also wants to talk to him while his sister is not around. One thing I suggested was getting the younger brother to bring it up (he is also anti-circ) in a non argumentative way, then dh could say something. He wasn't really keen on that, so anyone have any ideas?