[spiritmomma]

I trust that birth is safe, normal, and should be a beautiful experience. My first birth was with a midwife in a birth center. I had a great birth with no complications. But my daughter was not breathing well, even after suctioning, so we took her to the NICU. She is now fine and healthy. I am TTC baby #2 and this time around, I'd like to have a homebirth. (yay!)
I was wondering what you (and DP) did to prepare? Obviously there is the birth kit to assemble or purchase. But what about educating yourself about what to look for as far as signs of trouble or distress for you or baby?
My only concern is that if I had not been with a midwife, would I have known that Isa needed medical attention? Would I have realized it too late to have helped her? Could I possibly prepare myself to check my own baby out to make sure s/he is okay or should I trust that task to a midwife?

If there is already a thread on this, please just redirect me and I'll look there.

Thanks!

 

[Emilie]

Good for you! I would READ READ READ! I would also go check in UC- which is Unassisted Childbirth- they have a wealth of information that it sounds like you are looking for. I am sure they will have lots of reccomendations. Hey- you want to be in control. That is what HB is about! Knowledge is Power.
As a mom- I would say- you will know. Your HB mw will know.

 

[normajean]

There is a thread at the top of the UC forum with a list of books & websites. Its been helpful to me.

 

[Kellym]

Do I understand from your post then that you are looking at a UC this time? If the cord is still pulsing after birth, you have time to help get baby breathing. I agree though, read as much as you can. Research and study everything you can get your hands on.

 

[spiritmomma]

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Do I understand from your post then that you are looking at a UC this time?

well, not planning a UC, but am planning to be prepared for a UC in case my mw doesn't arrive in time, other circumstances, etc... And also considering a UC if I can get enough education for that to feel right for my family. I am open to UC, but not ready to claim that as my plan right now (mostly just need more info to decide).

Thanks everyone for your help! I'm still open to new ideas...