I'm babysitting this 16 month old who's sooo sweet and cute and 7 month old DS (who's intact) comes with me. Well, when I changed this baby's diaper it was quite obvious that he was circ'd even though I have never seen a circ'd baby penis. I wanted to cry when I saw it. Every time I changed his diaper I thought about how bad it must have hurt and what he may have to go through later in life since the rates are almost 50/50 so he's very likely to find out what he lost. How do I distance myself so it stops hurting me to see circ'd babies and to hear of it? It bothers me so much and sometimes I just can't believe how lucky DS is to have a mommy who looked into it and decided that it was horrible and never to do it. I originally planned to until my parents told me not to and then I looked into it and was just absolutely shocked and I feel horrible that I even considered it (even though I seriously had no idea what it entailed). Anyways, sorry for going on and on, I just kinda had to get that out and I figured this would be the right place.