ITA, that's not good for you OR your kids. Go to a women's shelter if you have to, but get out of her house!<br><br>
Where does your DH live? How is it cheaper for you to live with your mom than it is to live with him? There's so much aid out there for people who genuinely need it & sounds like you do, so take advantage of it, for your sake & your childrens'.<br><br>
I also live with my folks & I wouldn't trade it for anything. I wish your experience with your mom was as positive.<br><br><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug">
<i>In all love</i>, YOU HAVE TO LEAVE FOR YOUR HEALTH AND THE HEALTH OF YOUR FAMILY!<br><br>
Your mother is killing you and ruining your life!!!!<br><br>
PLEASE do yourself a favour and get out!!!!!!<br>
You can never prosper in a home so filled with negativity!!!!<br><br>
Once you leave you will feel so much better!!!!!!<br><br>
Once you are healthy and centred, your children will be healthy too.<br><br>
GET OUT AS SOON AS YOU CAN!!!!!<br><br><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/hug2.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Hug2"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/hug2.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Hug2"><br><br>
Take care of yourself because YOU are worth it!!!!!
So sorry things are like that for you mama. Your mom is abusive and controlling. I would seek counselling if I were you. Is there a local Family Resource Centre? Perhaps you could call the health department to find out. Thats a very unhealthy situation for you and your kids and you need to change it as soon as possible.<br>
Also, how do you feel about not living with your husband? I would be pretty upset if my husband didnt want to live me.