seriously the only thing that works sometimes is the blow dryer. haye LOVES to have it on, whether it's blowing on him or just near him. he also loves the red heat lamp in our bathroom, and heavy metal. in his carseat, he has headphones and a discman and he used to listen to the beatles only but i got sick of it...then i discovered that he automatically calmed down to 3 inches of blood and mortification...so that's what we use.he also loves the bellrays...anyways, i thought that was funny and could always use new suggestions for ways to keep him entertained/happy so share away. oh, i also put him on the dryer and in the warm laundry...