I had the same problem with my first daughter and for a while I did have to go into a room by myself to nurse her.
I didn't really know I had a strong let-down with my first (What, you mean every mom's milk doesn't spray across the room?). Is your baby's weight gain fine? Do you feel like you have a ton of milk as well? You might want to try this--nurse on one side only for each feeding and maybe even for a feeding or two. Of course, if your baby wants both sides, offer. Just let her finish one side (don't take her off after a certain number of minutes)--usually the baby will either come off on her own or fall asleep. This really helped regulate my supply so the milk wasn't gushing out, and I was amazed at how much easier it was to nurse.
I didn't really know I had a strong let-down with my first (What, you mean every mom's milk doesn't spray across the room?). Is your baby's weight gain fine? Do you feel like you have a ton of milk as well? You might want to try this--nurse on one side only for each feeding and maybe even for a feeding or two. Of course, if your baby wants both sides, offer. Just let her finish one side (don't take her off after a certain number of minutes)--usually the baby will either come off on her own or fall asleep. This really helped regulate my supply so the milk wasn't gushing out, and I was amazed at how much easier it was to nurse.