How much do you expect from a pre-school age kid as far as picking up after themselves? I have an almost 5 year old who right now does pretty much no cleaning up. I want to make a plan and get serious about having her pick up but am wondering how much to expect from her. She tends to get overwhelmed more easily than most kids her age, and is so stubborn I have literally spent entire days getting her to pick up just one toy. To make things more tricky, I have a recently developed chronic illness and often can't do much housework myself, so things get out of control quickly. I really need her help to pick up after herself, it's not just for the sake of teaching her to do it at this point. I'm thinking I will go over expectations with her and devote a few not very fun weeks to 100% follow-through, but before I do that I want to hear from others about how much they expect from their kids. Thanks!