Dang, lost my long post! Let's try this again.
Asmom2evan wrote, antibiotics are useless for viral infections. Abx are for bacterial infections. Most things kids get at daycare are viral.
I have given abx for ear infections twice, although DD has had them a few more times. Ear infections are awful - its heartbreaking to see our kids in so much pain. But my research found that abx do not shorten the length of most ear infections. So the goal is to provide pain relief and help make my DD comfortable while I support her immune system and the infection resolves itself. Goggle "ear infection without drugs" and you'll find lots of info from a variety of sources!
Abx for ear infections are the single most commonly prescribed drug in the US. A recent study from the Netherlands showed that abx use did not shorten the duration of the infection, and increased the risk of future infections.
The conversation seems to have gotten pretty specific about ears here. I've heard more parents talk about "masking" symptoms such as pain or fever with things like Tempra, Motrin or Tylenol, so that they can take kids who are sick or coming down with something to daycare anyways.
While we see our GP annually for well-child check ups, we mostly see a naturopath for acute illness in DD, for the reason that our NP is able to effectively treat so many childhood illnesses that the GP can't do anything about. Homeopathics have been especially effective for us (I'd never used them before DD).
The first year in daycare was like having the black plague in our house. After that, I think most WOHMs would agree that it gets easier. Your child has developed some antibodies, their immune system is maturing, and kids are learning how to wash hands, not mouth toys, etc. Also, around 3 yrs, the shape of the ear canal changes, so that ear infections become less common - it angles instead of being a straight line from the sinuses. For DD's second winter in daycare we started some homeopathic supplements to help boost her immune system in Aug/Sept that we continued through the winter. We had hardly a sniffle. These were recommended by our NP based on DD's constitution and the kind of things she usually gets. I'm not into self-prescribing for homeopathics, since I think it takes an experienced ND to choose the right treatments. So homeopathics, fish oil, probiotics - anything to help keep DD's immune system healthy in the first place - are what we do. On top of trying to have a very healthy diet, exercise and rest of course (we don't always do as well as we'd like, like anyone).
Sick days are the worst part of being a WOHM. Is DD sick? How sick? Will she get worse? Who's going to stay home, me or DH? If I take her in, will I get a call to pick her up part way through the day? If we stay home today, what about tomorrow? And of course, seeing my little munchkin miserable.
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