On one hand, I'm so happy that she will be able to feel the joy of motherhood. On the other, I don't know how well a 67yo woman will be able to keep up with 2 newborns (lack of sleep, all the other physical strains motherhood brings), or chase 2 active toddlers, etc when she's 70...And by the time they are 15, she'll be 82, if she lives that long. I dunno....I wouldn't do it, just because I don't know that I could be the kind of mother my kids would need if I were that old.
My grandparents (my children's great grandparents) are in that age range. In fact, my grandmother just died (from cancer) at 65 this past October so it's hard for me to be objective. On one hand I say "good for her, everyone deserves to be a mother" but on the other hand I feel like she may be making her children suffer in the long run.
Originally Posted by Calm
When you can't. If a woman's body can conceive, then so be it. Before contraception, there would have been little choice.
I agree w/ this, but the thing is, she wouldn't be pregnant now w/o infertility treatments. So, IMO she is too old. (Not saying that anyone using infertility treatments is too old, but this lady should be past menopause by now, or so you'd think.)
How much joy is she gonna have when she is lying in the hospital dying and her kids aren't grown up yet?
I wish she had adopted especially since there are so many orphans in Romania and they have closed out of country adoptions!
How safe is that, A DECADE OF FERTILITY TREATMENTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
The majority of which probbably haven't been entirely proven to be safe, and she's having twins. It sounds a little on the dangerous side, I have to agree menapouse(sp? im too lazy right now) happens for a reason!
On top of that you know she birth experience will be highly doctor regulated, i.e. Lots of medical intervention.
So now, I think it is a little, hmmm, not quite right. I have heard of natural pregnancy in the sixties and seventies though, and even though it is the same age, I don't know if manipulating nature like this case is a good idea. I wish the best for her and her children, though. I just wouldn't follow her lead.
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