I only ask b/c my dd is 8 and is still sleeping w/ us. I don't mind, dh doesn't mind, and she certainly doesn't mind. There's a lot of issues, she's not very confident/secure, but, you wouldn't know that unless you knew her very well. I think it stems from the fact that my step-dad died on her birthday VERY unexpectedly two years ago and he was like a father to her (her bio father has never seen her) Then, I got married, we moved, and dh and I had a new baby and all this happened w/in a year! She slept w/ me when I was a single mom and we tried everything to get her to sleep in her own bed, but to no avail. I must admit that I enjoy her snuggles as well. Is there something wrong that she's still co-sleeping?