I am tandem nursing my DS (3y3m) and DD (6.5 m). DH keeps bringing up over and over when am I going to wean DS. I asked him what his concerns were with him still nursing, and he says that he just thinks that it is developmentally time and that he is worried about him becoming too much of a "mama's boy". He brings up an example of some people we knew where the mom went off to college with her son because she just could not bear to be parted from him. He also wonders if the nursing is more for me than DS at this age. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/irked.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="irked">: I have already mentioned to him many of the continuing benefits...DS is less sick, gets good nutrition from it (especially since he won't drink cow's milk), helps fill in the gaps if he does not eat well some days, gets him drowsy and in in "sleep mode" at night so putting him to bed is easier, comforts him, etc. Its not like DS nurses all the time either, just morning and night unless he has a real need for it during the day. DH is very stubborn too, and does not respond well to web sources (like Kathy Dettwyler, kellymom, etc.) that I show him, as he claims he could find plenty of sources to prove his point as well. Any ideas on how to just get him to ACCEPT it even if he does not entirely agree?