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How to start solids with breastfeeding?

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When I do start solids, how do I work it in with breastfeeding? I have never pumped and my six-month-old daughter has never had a bottle, and I'd prefer not to start either if I don't have to. But I've heard that it's good to mix in breastmilk with first foods (like the cereals). I also don't want to interfere with the on-demand breastfeeding I've been doing - so how do I combine solids into her diet without negatively impacting my milk supply?

Thanks in advance for the help!

Angela
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When ds started solids at 6.5 months (about a month ago) I was surprised he really didn't care about them. In fact, he nursed more! You could always just manually express some milk when you are getting his food ready. HTH. I'm sure you will get a lot more advice here.
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When ds started solids at 6.5 months (about a month ago) I was surprised he really didn't care about them. In fact, he nursed more! You could always just manually express some milk when you are getting his food ready. HTH. I'm sure you will get a lot more advice here.
I second manual expression ... at this age, they're eating such small amounts that it's not difficult to manually express a bit of milk to add in with food. That said, my 11-month-old is really just now showing an interest in food, so I haven't had TONS of experience on the topic!!
You also don't really have to do the cereals - a lot of people start off with fruits and vegetables (sweet potatoes are a popular choice) and then add cereals later as finger food. I know adding bm is supposed to make the baby like it more, but I never did and my DDs all took to solids eagerly.
As far as scheduling - it's usually recommend to offer solids after nursing to ensure the baby gets enough milk and doesn't fill up on the solids. Not immediately after, but an hour or so later. Just make sure you pick a time of day when baby is alert and interested in trying new things and only offer small amounts -she'll let you know if she's really ready for it
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Thanks everyone for the advice! This is my first time posting in MDC and after much lurking around reading everyone's posts, I'm really grateful for the response!

I think my biggest concern is how to work it in timewise.

So ultimately do I migrate her towards a three-meal day with the solids, plus the breastfeeding (she's eating about every three hours, through the night too)? It sounds like they eat such a tiny bit of solids that it shouldn't make much of a difference when they eat them.

Should I just offer her food throughout the day and see when she takes it or try to keep to some kind of regularity? I hear a lot of kids are grazers and that that is the way we were designed to feed ourselves anyway, but then there's the whole argument about kids appreciating routine...
I understand your concern re: timing as their are pros and cons to letting a child graze (just as their are for sticking to three meals a day). But for starting solids, I think it both makes sense and it kind of nice to start them when it happens to coincide with a family meal. You just start off with offering solids once a day for a while anyway, so pick a meal where everyone is, and then say offer a bit of pears or sweet potato (I also think offering rice cereal as a first solid is inconvenient at best) after you all get going with your meal. I think it's nice to start including babies in family meals early on and it also helps get them interested in eating.

As others have said, if she doesn't seem interested, back off and try again a few weeks later when she does.

Good luck!
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I think my biggest concern is how to work it in timewise.
That was my concern too, when I was at that stage. But it all seemed to work itself out, without my having to orchestrate too much, kwim?

I don't think you have to worry too much about her eating enough to negatively impact your supply, especially since the solids will be in addition to nursing, not as a replacement for any nursing sessions. And don't fret if she's not interested in solids at this point -- my DS was well over a year before he really took any interest in much besides breastmilk, Os, and the occasional chunk of soft fruit. When he did start to eat more, avocado and banana (as well as the above-mentioned sweet potato) were two of my DS's faves early on, and are both quite nutritious. in the beginning I mashed them up and added the BM not so much for the taste, but to help make a smooth consistency.

I also wanted to add that often kids are interested in what the adults are eating, and there's no harm in offering a little of what you have (as long as it's not too heavily spiced, or a choking hazard, of course). Some vegetables or potatoes or brown rice off your plate might go over well. If it's not your thing, you don't have to prepare "baby food" -- you can ease into the transition by just including your child in your meals and gauging her interest that way.

HTH!
~Nick
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Dd was not in the slightest interested in solids until she was 11mos old, and then she *only* wanted it if a) she could feed it to herself, with her hands and b) DH or I were eating it at the same time. We just started out by offering her, from the table, bits of what we were eating. Often I'd leave out allergenic ingredients from a small portion of the food for her (like leave a few chunks of boiled potatoes plain while I mashed the rest with milk). I didn't worry about spices, though, or combined foods, or any strict progression of cereal-fruit-vegetable-meat.

She's almost 16mos now and she's moved on to eating her own little snacks, letting us pop things into her mouth once in a while but mostly still feeding herself (with hands or a utensil).

When you think about it, this really makes sense, because as with every other species where the parent raises the young, humans learn to eat solid foods by watching the adults around them do it and being driven to imitate.

One other thing, when your baby begins to eat solids (as opposed to just playing or experimenting with them) it *will* affect your milk supply. It's supposed to. The beginning of eating solid food is the beginning of the natural weaning process
: That's why it's so important not to push for it before your baby is ready and not to push them to eat larger portions than they're interested in. It shouldn't be a problem, though, provided you always offer the breast freely. If you make your milk freely available, there will always be as much as your chid needs.
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just came across this thread as it is very timely in our house too
and wanted to acknowledge what girlndocs wrote
it really touched me and makes so much sense
thank you

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When you think about it, this really makes sense, because as with every other species where the parent raises the young, humans learn to eat solid foods by watching the adults around them do it and being driven to imitate.

One other thing, when your baby begins to eat solids (as opposed to just playing or experimenting with them) it *will* affect your milk supply. It's supposed to. The beginning of eating solid food is the beginning of the natural weaning process
: That's why it's so important not to push for it before your baby is ready and not to push them to eat larger portions than they're interested in. It shouldn't be a problem, though, provided you always offer the breast freely. If you make your milk freely available, there will always be as much as your chid needs.
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I just want to be a third voice sharing girlndocs views on feeding.

Her stance is pretty much exactly what I believe. However, we started with our son younger than we intended to (right at 6 months) because he is soooooo interested in food. We just make sure it's more play than nutrition right now. He gets a non-breastmilk food every other day or so at this point and it's basically nil in its contribution to his nutrition. It just amuses him during meals, making them pleasant again.
Yeah, I had intended to delay solids but my baby had other plans. We started about a week before 6 months - now she's over 7 months and she gets extremely excited just at the sight of her bib or spoon. She also expresses her displeasure louldy when we're eating and she's not. I was concerned initially that it would affect my milk supply but she's even nursing more than she was before, although that's partly teething comfort nursing. I think the important thing id to follow your baby's cues; every child is different.
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