BF meaning best friend- not boyfriend, btw!
Hi Mamas,
If you read my 1st post here, you know that I've been really sick and in the hospital with viral gastroenteritis, and it has taken me 7 weeks to recover- during this time we thought we would lose the baby so we didn't tell friends, just close family.
My best friend is on the west coast and dealing with a lot right now- so I have not burderned her with my issues. Well- I called her last week to tell her our news and she answers my call with- 'Can you believe it- our friends x, y and z are all preggers!' If I was brave I would have said 'Well, you can add me to that list!!' but she was clearly upset (she doesn't have kids but has always wanted them) and went off about how she would never have them and all the evils of pregnancy and childrearing.
After this- I could not bring myself to tell her.
So how do I now?
Thanks for your words of wisdom,
Mj
Hi Mamas,
If you read my 1st post here, you know that I've been really sick and in the hospital with viral gastroenteritis, and it has taken me 7 weeks to recover- during this time we thought we would lose the baby so we didn't tell friends, just close family.
My best friend is on the west coast and dealing with a lot right now- so I have not burderned her with my issues. Well- I called her last week to tell her our news and she answers my call with- 'Can you believe it- our friends x, y and z are all preggers!' If I was brave I would have said 'Well, you can add me to that list!!' but she was clearly upset (she doesn't have kids but has always wanted them) and went off about how she would never have them and all the evils of pregnancy and childrearing.
After this- I could not bring myself to tell her.
So how do I now?
Thanks for your words of wisdom,
Mj