I need some advice. We are holding off telling our families for a couple of reasons. One reason is that my SIL has had 3 pregnancies and 3 miscarriages, the most recent one being a couple months ago. We've thought that if we wait a while to tell, perhaps she'll call and tell us she's pregnant (she's always announced pretty early on). But that kind of makes it anti-climactic. "I'm pregnant" "cool, so are we." She's been through a lot, and I don't want to cause her any more anger/sadness/etc. but I'm truely excited to be pregnant and want to tell my family. We really feel we need to annouce it to both of our families at the same time. While our families don't live in this area, we see our friends all the time and one of my friends has already asked me point blank if I'm pregnant. Apparently I have pregnant vibes. I don't want the whole world to know before our families do!!! Any ideas on what we should do?