I started back to work when dd was 5 months. She was with dh for a year, and then started daycare 3x a week at 14 months.
Several things came of this:
1. She never took much in a bottle. She reverse cycled. She still managed to be in the 90th percentile for weight!
2. She learned at daycare to fall asleep with a teacher patting her back.
3. When I was at home (the 1 day a week I was home and weekends), dd nursed to sleep.
She had no trouble with the different routines in different places/with different people. I haven't a clue as to how dh got her to sleep, but he did.
Trust that your son can learn.
Several things came of this:
1. She never took much in a bottle. She reverse cycled. She still managed to be in the 90th percentile for weight!
2. She learned at daycare to fall asleep with a teacher patting her back.
3. When I was at home (the 1 day a week I was home and weekends), dd nursed to sleep.
She had no trouble with the different routines in different places/with different people. I haven't a clue as to how dh got her to sleep, but he did.
Trust that your son can learn.