Two weeks is a long time to wait for dates with mom. Why not try and find time twice a week (or at least once a week) and do something non-money oriented. Go bike riding or walk together. Take him only when you go to the grocery store. Stuff like that. Involve him in doing the things that he's jealous you do for your DD. Ask for his help in dressing her, and stuff like that.
Talk to him...find out if bio-dad is doing/saying stuff that's upsetting him.
Involve him in everything you can, like making dinner; and say repeatedly that you enjoy his company and appreciate his help.
I hope that gives you some idea's where to start. I remember being the oldest of 5 kids, and that's how I felt at about the same age. I just tried to remember what it is that I wanted when I complained about these things. I think that people fawn over and make a fuss about babies; and as a 7 year old, you think "man, not too long ago, that was me they made a big deal out of. WTH happened?"
~Vanessa~
PS: I'm ridiculously offended by your post, thanks for the apology.
(this is not me making fun of you, I promise, I just thought it was 'cute')
Talk to him...find out if bio-dad is doing/saying stuff that's upsetting him.
Involve him in everything you can, like making dinner; and say repeatedly that you enjoy his company and appreciate his help.
I hope that gives you some idea's where to start. I remember being the oldest of 5 kids, and that's how I felt at about the same age. I just tried to remember what it is that I wanted when I complained about these things. I think that people fawn over and make a fuss about babies; and as a 7 year old, you think "man, not too long ago, that was me they made a big deal out of. WTH happened?"
~Vanessa~
PS: I'm ridiculously offended by your post, thanks for the apology.
