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and thrilled about it lol! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/joy.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="joy"><br><br>
VABF and I talked last night about my "list of demands" as he called it. Basically the conversation consisted of him telling me how I'm screwing him over by quitting, that he now has to get an office somewhere and hire a real receptionist, etc. Boo f'ing Hoo. Maybe he can tell his new secretary she's a pig too. Or better yet, call her a c*nt because she asks a question.<br><br>
I didn't engage in the conversation at all. I refuse to explain to him AGAIN how I feel, since it doesn't seem to register with him anyway. I spent today cleaning a little, doing some yard work and just hanging with my kids and it was nice. I avoided VABF a lot because he looked like he was going to be grouchy, but he managed to control himself and we had a pleasant dinner before he left.<br><br>
Kids are sleeping, he went back to work for the week, and I am heading to bed soon to get a good nights sleep before I tackle the house tomorrow. It is in need of some serious cleaning, and now that I'm not going to be running around like a crazy person trying to balance work, kids, school and everything else, maybe I can actually get it clean.<br><br>
I also put out some feelers for a job that I can bring DS with me. I would rather not put him in daycare if I can help it, but I'll figure out something eventually. For now, I'm content to take it easy for a while and just reconnect with myself and the kids.<br><br>
One step in the right direction.
 

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Hell yeah. Good steps forward. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/thumb.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="thumbs up">
 

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Congratulations! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/joy.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="joy">
 

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Yay! Go you for standing up for yourself. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/orngbiggrin.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="orange big grin">
 
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