Well, Paton's merino is very nice and soft, also nice and soft is Hand Painted Yarns, I knit hats for DD and DH out of it, and I think it's even softer than Merino's Classic, and in such pretty colours. Is it the texture of the wool that is bothering you, or perhaps the chemicals used in the scouring/de-vegging process on the wool before it's spun?