I can start divorce proceedings on July 10th. $218. Then 6 weeks while they get clearance from Ottawa. Then at the end of August ex and I go swear affadavits and file second set $120. Judge should see it sometime in September and 30 days after that I will be divorced. Woo Hoo! I just talked to ex about it and he is agreeable with keeping everything the same except he wants joint custody with me having primary residance. I have sole custody now. I know if he took me to court he would get it, so I am just going to change it. Also we talked about after he gets a little more on track, him having joint physical custody. Which might be ok, we will see if he can get his finances together and get his own place to live (he shares a house with my bestfriend and her 5 kids right now).