I guess this belongs here. My older DS is currently doing so much to imitate his younger brother. He's doing the whole baby bit, crawling, baby language, etc. He often tries to call attention to himself, "Baby (himself) is crawling, Mommy", "Baby (himself) is making the milk sign." I feel like I'm failing him because it seems like he feels the need to do things his younger brother is doing in order to get attention. I'm afraid he doesn't value all the wonderful things he can do because he somehow thinks his younger brother's actions are more attention-getting or worthy than his wonderful self. I wish he didn't feel like he has to be so competitive with his brother. Does this make any sense? Any suggestions?