When you have it on you should have 2 layers of fabric with the openign facing up. Simply open up those layers and this creates a "pouch" for your little one. Once in tug on the edges to make sure shes all the way in and Voila!, you're done.
Goodluck!
ETA: Ok I just checked out the hotsling directions and its hard to see where she opens the pouch. Checkout these ones but ignore the rings and instructions for adjusting. BTW its a 5yr old doing it, so if she can you will be able to. Hang in there! Instructions
Goodluck!
ETA: Ok I just checked out the hotsling directions and its hard to see where she opens the pouch. Checkout these ones but ignore the rings and instructions for adjusting. BTW its a 5yr old doing it, so if she can you will be able to. Hang in there! Instructions