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I went in for my 17 week check today, couldn't find the heartbeat with the doppler. I had two ultrasounds and and there was no heartbeat on that either. No idea what may have happened, but it looks like baby passed about 2 weeks ago. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/gloomy.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Gloomy">:<br><br>
I'm still pretty numb right now, and have some decisions to make here soon. I just wanted to stop in and say goodbye to you all. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="greensad"><br><br>
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Oh my goodness! What a horrible shock! I'm so sorry vermillion. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="greensad"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="greensad"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="greensad"> Just when we thought we were all past this shit... <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="greensad"><br><br>
I am thinking of you.
 

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I'm so very sorry.<br><br>
-Angela
 

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Oh no, I'm so very sorry.
 

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<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"> to you<br><br>
Try to take care of yourself, I'm sorry you're leaving.
 

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Thank you.<br><br>
Please send me and my family strength to get through this, as well as positive thoughts for delivery, as I think that is what I am going to go with, rather than the D&E.<br><br><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="greensad">
 

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<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/candle.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Candle"><br><br>
Thinking of you, mama. I am so sorry.
 

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I am soooo sorry for your loss mama! I cannot imagine how heartbreaking this is for you and your family!! Sending LOTS of prayers and hugs your way!!
 

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I am so so sorry. I've been there, almost at the exact same place. Love and strength to you.
 

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I am so so sorry. I've been there, almost at the exact same place. Love and strength to you.</div>
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This far along?<br><br>
If you feel comfortable, could you tell me what you did for deliviering or whatnot? I need to choose and I'm just so damn confused right now.
 

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The first time (15 weeks 4 days) I tried to deliver, but I had a large fibroid in the way. I imagine you're not having that problem. After trying everything (I was begging) they dilated me to a ten way too rapidly (I do NOT recommend this), they ended up heavily sedating me and taking it.<br><br>
The second time (15 weeks 3 days) I flipped out, panicked, and got so hysterical that DH decided they should do the D & E. I so didn't want them to do the D&C part of it, but they did, both times.<br><br>
I thankfully don't remember anything after the drugs.<br><br>
I'm debating on whether to post this because I was NOT good at this and I don't want to upset you further. It's a very personal decision. If this is too upsetting or just not helpful, please tell me and I'll delete it.<br><br>
If I had it to do again (without the fibroid), I'd try to deliver again.
 

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I'm sorry Mama. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug"><br><br>
For your little one <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/candle.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Candle">
 

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oh hon, i am so sorry. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/hug2.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Hug2">
 

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Oh no. I am so sorry. Sending you and your family peaceful thoughts and prayers.<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug">
 

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Oh no! I'm so terribly sorry for your loss. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="/img/vbsmilies/smilies/gloomy.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="Gloomy">:
 

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So sorry!
 

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I am so, so, so sorry. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/greensad.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="greensad">
 
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