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I had my first m/c was 1.5 years ago. My second m/c was 1 year and 2 mnths ago.<br><br>
I hadn't really stopped to think about it all in awhile. I know that in the ehat of the moment that I said I would never forget. But it is amazing how things can get pushed to the back of your mind. I got to thinking tonight about the babies we lost and about if they were boys or girls... could I have lost my daughter??... and what our lives would be like if "they" were here.<br><br>
Would they have been such good happy babies like Bryce is? Would they be BIG babes like Bryce? Would they look like me or am I truly destined to have only children who look like clones of dh? What would their hands and feet look like? Would they smile and laugh when my dad tickled their necks with his beard?<br><br>
So many questions and NO answers. You know, I said that my baby would come to me when s/he is ready. When I got pg with Bryce I was like "This is it! Baby decided to stay!" When in reality, I don't think I believe it. I know some are comforted by knowing their baby will return. But I truly believe Bryce is a totally different baby than the 2 before him. My other babes are waiting for me. One day we'll meet... some day...
 

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Megan,<br><br>
I know exactly what you mean. As much as I loved Sophia, I am much more comfortable with the thought that the next baby will be a completely different soul. Maybe because I don't trust the little scamp not to do it again.....(bad girl! bad Sophia! <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/smile.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="smile"> ) I really hope the next one decides to stay for a long, long time.....like, long enough to make me a grandmother, and then some....!!!!<br><br>
I too believe that one day I'll meet Sophie.......but not today. One day.....<br><br>
Blessings to you and all your sweetpeas,<br><br>
Jen
 

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I guess it is one of those things that you''ll know when it occurs.<br>
But whether it is in this life or whatever comes afterwards it is a comfort to know that it will happen someday.<br><br><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/hug.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="hug">
 
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