I just felt I had to post this, given my previous thead about my marital problems.
I think it was mostly depression talking.
Things are much better now...not because he is different.. but because I am trying to handle things differently.
I feel bad that I was so mean about my chosen life partner in a public form.
Other women here have REAL reasons to vent.
My problems are really the result of my own struggles... my depression and quick temper and self pity.
Dh is a loving, gentle person and I am lucky to have him in my life.
Thanks to those who helped me figure things out.