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I love him so much. he has become my best friend, my lover, my companion. A year ago we were talking splitting, we hung in there together, went through some terrible times together and now are emerging stronger than ever, it feels like I am falling in love with the real man not my idea of who I should be with. And it feels wonderful.
 

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I think marriage is something no one can prepare you for- you just have to hang on. If I had let go all the times we were having problems, we wouldn't of made it this far. And more importantly, the way I view marriage now is not as a Fantasy Wonderland, it's real life w/ real problems which DH may or may not help w/.
 

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Good for you! I also have a wonderful marriage to an absolutely amazing man and it is such a great feeling to have this as a foundation to life.<br><br><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/thumb.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="thumbs up">
 

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<div style="font-style:italic;">I think marriage is something no one can prepare you for- you just have to hang on. If I had let go all the times we were having problems, we wouldn't of made it this far. And more importantly, the way I view marriage now is not as a Fantasy Wonderland, it's real life w/ real problems which DH may or may not help w/.</div>
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<img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/nod.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="nod"> Same here.<br><br>
It's true that when you're going through tremendous difficulties the person who feels the strongest, most capable and most insightful might be steering the ship alone for awhile! Even quite awhile. It's messy and bumpy.....but can pay great dividends. <img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/smile.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="smile"><img alt="" class="inlineimg" src="http://www.mothering.com/discussions/images/smilies/love.gif" style="border:0px solid;" title="love">:
 
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