my dd (8 months) sleeps with me in our king size bed. My dh who works nights sleeps on the couch his 2 nights off because he is a very deep & violent sleeper. I really miss sleeping with him. when do you think it will be okay to have him sleep on one side and dd on the other. btw:dd is a big girl 29 lbs. and 29 inches at her 6 month doc. visit.