I am a mother of 2 girls, 6 and 3, and i have recently faced a problem that took me off guard. My 6 yr old has a 9 yr old neighbor friend (or i thought so). My 6 yr old likes to watch mine-craft and other kids videos on you tube, I try to keep an eye on her, i even downloaded the you tube kids version. last week i was looking at you tube search history on my phone and i saw something about (girl kiss girl) so i natural y freaked out and tried to get to the bottom of it, my child denied strongly that any one told her anything and that she dreamt about it. I am not defending my child but SHE WAS TOLD THAT.... 6 YR OLD DON'T JUST WAKE UP AND DECIDE TO LOOK FOR KISSING VIDEOS. So after me and my husband talked to her, we restricted phone and tab access using kids apps. the next day i was checking my tablet, AND OMG, am not going to write what i read, but it was so disturbing, and so sexual that i couldn't read any further. I was sooooo mad at my 6 yrs old and i grounded her until she tells me truth because she kept saying she did it on her own. Eventually she came to me and told the truth, that her 9 yrs old friend told her about it and that the 9 yr old was the one using google voice to search for all that. she cried and admitted her part and that she was so sorry, I explained to her that she cannot play with that girl any more and she was very upset and said that's why she did not want to tell on her, she was afraid to lose a friend. We called the parent of the 9 yrs old, in the beginning they they were as surprised as we were, then they started to blame my 6 yr old , their daughter said it was all my daughter and that she did not know any thing about and that my not even 6 yer daughter made her watch those thing, they claim their daughter cannot spell so there is no way she could of done it.... vice search duhhhhh!!!!! so we told them that our daughters should not play ALONE any more, they can be in groups or under our supervision. the next day the father of that girl came over to TALK... I am not trying to judge, but this guy and his wife has no discipline for their children at all, all the neighbors know that and try to keep away from them ( you should see the way they let their girl talk to them in public), my daughter is so nice she plays with that girl cause no one else will, I should of followed my instinct when i first met them, but I decided to give them a chance, AND I LEARNED MY LESSON.the father was trying to put it all on my kid basically saying his daughter is an angel, so I told him our daughter cannot play together any more and that my daughter does not know most of the words that were on the search bar (how can she know the word cuger and [email protected]#$#@ when she doesn't even watch any thing but Disney and nick junior) . we agreed its better for them to be apart. an hour later he calls my husband saying my daughter is the bad person here and that he is forbidden his child from being near mine.... REALLY??? any ways , I know it does not make any sense that my 6 yr old would know all those nasty things and the 9 years old is the innocent one especially that she looks and talks WAY more mature that her age, she even told me she watches game of thrones..... that should of been a red flag for me.... there are alot of details I did not write here because it would be tooooo long, but the bottom line comes to logic, who would have done it or at least started it, an almost 6 yr old who has strict parents or a 9 year old who is allowed to do whatever she wants when ever she wants and has no boundries. so now my daughter is heart broken, and I do not know what to do?????? any advice ?????