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<p>STBX has an appt today with his atty to review the Dissolution of Marriage and Parenting Plan and to sign them if he agrees. He has said multiple times that he will sign them but he always backs out and finds something wrong. I need this to be over and be able to move on with my life. I just can't move on with him still having this kind of control over me (being able to hold these things over my head and threaten to do this, that or another thing to the PP). Please send some P&PT this way today if you can that he will pull his head out of his butt for just a few minutes and get these things signed and notarized and sent back to my atty. Once this is done, he can't make changes to it without dragging me to mediation and paying for it out of his own pocket.</p>
 

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<p>i hope things go well so that life is easier for you and your family. </p>
 

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<p>Good luck! It will end soon!! Try not to stress too much, though I <strong>know</strong> its hard. He sounds like a spoiled stubborn one. (Reminds me of my x).</p>
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<p>It's done!!!! He says he signed them and his atty is filing them tomorrow. The relief when he told me he signed...well, I hung up and started crying....now I can move on with my life. He can't control me anymore. I got what I wanted and I got what I needed for my babies.</p>
 

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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>haydn'smommy</strong> <a href="/community/forum/thread/1286923/i-need-some-prayers-and-positive-thoughts-please#post_16134236"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style="border:0px solid;"></a><br><br><p>It's done!!!! He says he signed them and his atty is filing them tomorrow. The relief when he told me he signed...well, I hung up and started crying....now I can move on with my life. He can't control me anymore. I got what I wanted and I got what I needed for my babies.</p>
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<br><br><p>WOOOHOOOO! Congrats and many hugs!</p>
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<p>aaaaah CONGRATULATIONS mama.</p>
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<p>moving on feels sooooooooooooooo good doesnt it.</p>
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<p>I'm so glad to hear that he signed them! CONGRATS!!!</p>
 

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<p>Congratulations!!!!  I'm so glad he signed!!!   <span><img alt="jumpers.gif" src="http://files.mothering.com/images/smilies/jumpers.gif">       Good luck as you embark in your new journey!!</span></p>
 

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<p>congrats!</p>
 

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<div class="quote-block">Originally Posted by <strong>haydn'smommy</strong> <a href="/community/forum/thread/1286923/i-need-some-prayers-and-positive-thoughts-please#post_16134236"><img alt="View Post" class="inlineimg" src="/community/img/forum/go_quote.gif" style="border-bottom:0px solid;border-left:0px solid;border-top:0px solid;border-right:0px solid;"></a><br><br><p>It's done!!!! He says he signed them and his atty is filing them tomorrow. The relief when he told me he signed...well, I hung up and started crying....now I can move on with my life. He can't control me anymore. I got what I wanted and I got what I needed for my babies.</p>
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